Your First.

It could be your first of anything. First love. First "real" job. First bike ride. First race. First triathlon. First Ironman.

Fun. Free spirited. No preconceived notions. No fear of failure. Light-hearted. Happy. No baggage. Positive expectations. Proceeding in the moment.

So how do you keep life's experiences feeling like "the first"? As we drive to The Woodlands I've got some quiet time to reflect on the "free spirited" experience of "the first"How do you make "the second" as fun and fresh as the first? I think it boils down to expectations.

With "the first" (of anything) our expectations are much more limited. We've never experienced "it" (whatever that is for each of us) before. So there's not as much pressure, but more of a "get what you get" attitude. I think the sensory system is much more engaged to take it all in, see it, feel it, taste it, smell it. Kind of like our kids do on a daily basis - being in the moment, enjoying it and taking it all in.

Do we learn from "the first"? Absolutely. And we go back for seconds as a wiser, more experienced person, employee, partner and/or athlete.

So my only expectation and goal is to enjoy it. Celebrate it. Take it all in. Taste it, Feel it. Smell it. See it. Live it. And to cross the finish line smiling - ready to celebrate with friends!






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